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We went to see her family after Xmas. We drove down and stopped to let the kids have a play in the park. It was a nice relaxing family day. When we got there she took off with her dad to the pub. He asked if I wanted to come but I wanted her to see me and say 'we've had a lovely day, come out for a drink with us and we can have a nice time together'. I was left with her dad's wife and all the kids. Once again I felt I was being used as a babysitter. We haven't seen my family in England in years and she doesn't send so much as a Xmas card to them, but I've been good to hers, even being called the favourite son in law. I took dramatic action. I drove to the airport and books a flight home and left the car there. She pleaded by text, saying she still loves me and she thought that day was the start of the reconciliation, but I was angry and I was going to follow through. I went home in a cloud. She said she grieved for our relationship over the next few days and came out stronger and independent. From what i have heard she was on tinder within a few days and had several guys she was chatting with very quickly. She met a couple of them and it may have gone further but for the new boyfriend coming into the same pub that night. They have a connection. Within 6 weeks of the New Years events she had met her new love. 6 weeks after 17 years of marriage and 3 kids several businesses, houses and god knows what else. That's what it took for the best years of my life to go down the toilet 😢😢😢