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Would you rather break a good persons heart or have your heartbroken?

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Hurting someone intentionally would also hurt me deeply, so I'd rather just shoulder the pain alone to begin with. Knowing that I spared them some pain would make it a little easier to bear.

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

@ProdigalSummer: then comes the choice, do i want the other person to deal with heartbreak, or the guilt knowing they broke mine...... its a lose / lose.

ProdigalSummer · F

Yeah. But if they've checked out or already moved on emotionally then the guilt will be minimal.

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

@ProdigalSummer: i deal with heartbreak alot easier...... give me about a week of mourning, and i'm ready to get back to life..... takes me alot longer to deal with the guilt.