what is something you wish to redo?

@Picklebobble2: what happened in 1982? married someone?

@theowl: Nah. Left school and instead of turning one way and joining the Royal Navy; Training in something useful; taking part in the Falklands conflict; possibly receiving several training courses; possibly rising through the ranks; possibly having a career from which i might have been able to retire at 50.
I went the other way !
Different career; countless different posts; several different places; promoted so far but because i didn't want to be a 'paper-pusher' couldn't go any further; one lousy marriage; stress, stress, stress, insufficient funding for my pension..........

@theowl: so you meet her and she wasn't who she said she was??!

no just a lot of lying online. and i confronted her on her lies. and she just went nuts. ended up i got to see the narcissistic side to that person.

@theowl: 😞

@Diesel95: how did it affect you?

I have not been able to swallow for the last 2 years not even saliva and I'm due surgery later this year to correct it