Sometimes being out in nature takes it away for me, other times it's me being of service to someone in need that helps.

i wish i had a genuine answer to this question, because of most of the people on here owlie, i genuinely believe that you deserve it. but as someone who on occasion seeks this, i don't know honestly. when i sometimes fall in this pit i stay there sometimes quite a long while. but what i can say is. whenever possible, do grab a hold of whatever light is within your heart. hold onto that, and TIGHT, find warmth within it, peace, and i hope that while doing so, the thing you desire the most finds you, and holds you as tightly as you grasped onto that light, and they then become the light in your heart. i wish you luck <3

Easy , Secure my computer room doors so they don't get in .

In laws are a pain at times

Help someone in need. A neighbor or friend.

I can't stop them, I mostly just try to cope with them. For me, writing, talking to people on here, focusing on things that need to be done or other people's problems, etc can provide a bit of distraction from the pain of it.

Get a puppy

Talk on here, maybe go home, a lot of times it's just waiting it out

Connection...

Come to terms with self. No other way

Fake happiness and humour

Ask stupid questions on here, and laugh at the comments