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Is it true that people who cheat actually still do love their spouses?

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If they do, they have a warped definition of love.
Serenitree · F
I think that cheating is an indication of no respect for the partner, or even themselves. And certainly none for the one they are using on the side.

Apr 22/17
12:27 am
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Some do, some don't
SW-User
I read somewhere that men often cheat in an effort to save their relationship - e.g. there's something more that they want and aren't getting so they look to add that and maintain the relationship at the same time (a getting and eating your cake, if you will), but that for women it's usually a strong indication that they're done, given up, had enough.
SW-User
I personally think that's rubbish but who knows. I just feel the desire for sex is stronger than the desire to commit to a partner in these type of cases.
SW-User
@ForeverPink: couldn't say, just something I read somewhere.
Tminus6453 · M
lol...No.. unless its a warped view of the concept of "love"
CollateralDamage · 22-25, F
i dont think so, cause if they loved you from the very beginning they wouldnt dare to hurt you
SW-User
For some yes, others no. But yes you can still screw someone else but love your partner. Might not end well obviously but it's a real thing
Cosreal · 36-40
Yeah, I'll never believe that.
Balint81 · 41-45, M
Not all of them..but some do
SW-User
someone who doesn't care about your feelings doesn't love you
SW-User
Makes sense.
SW-User
I believe they do.
Very possible yes
SW-User
it's called fake love.
Pfuzylogic · M
not more than the act of cheating
SW-User
I am not a cheater so I can't really answer that, but that seems like just a cop out for the cheater to say but I only love you that person didn't mean anything blah blah BS
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Some yes, some no.
SW-User
if they are men ,yes. Women when they cheat is because they don't give a damn to anything anymore. Men cheat cause they are weak and can't control their penises regardless if they love the wife or not. That is a generalization okay, but Yeah.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@Lostgirl01: DEFINITELY a generalization. LOL

 
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