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Is it rude to say "You cant be sad all the time" when someone they love passed away?

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It's 5 months since my friend lost her close childhood friend since the age of 3. I told her I'm so sorry for her loss. Then I said, "Your best friend wouldn't want you be to depressed right? So your can't be sad all the time."
She didn't respond for 30 minutes.
I was like, "Look I know it hurts and I know how you feel." she hasn't responded to me since. I texted her this morning, "Hey sis. I didn't offend you did I? If I did I'm sorry."
My other friends said that was pretty harsh. They said I have so point but I shouldn't have said that to her and that's probably why she hasn't responded back.
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Mongoheadmonster · 41-45, M
She shouldn't get too bent out of shape about that
@Mongoheadmonster: EXACTLY. I'm just telling her her beat friend would want her to be happy. I was just telling her the truth.