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OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Yes.I am a loner
Smoothie · 70-79, M
@OneLostSoul: that can be a good thing sometimes
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Not for me.
I am young
I am young
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Whats that mean.Why choose?
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
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SW-User
I feel you. I don't really understand why some loners are, or pretend to be, happy with their loneliness. I don't know about you, but the reason why I'm a loner is that every time I try to fit in, I disappoint myself by failing. I often daydream about having a real connection with someone, and only my imaginary conversations feel genuinely real and substantial... but I enjoy seeing people interact with each other, and sometimes being a silent observer is painful for me.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
SW-User
Thanks for sharing. So are you in high school? Because from my experience, most teens are superficial that's why they see you for your learning difficulties, not for the person you are... and I've gone through this because I have a disability, in addition to being socially awkward. I find sites like this one really good for making friends, because you can be yourself and meet people with similar interests. And I'm really sorry you lost your mom :( *sends you virtual hugs and chocolate * 🤗
SW-User
I used to thrive on it. As life has gone on I feel many of those things I experienced on my own feel hollow now. They're just stories to tell. I wish there were people with me at those times, so I could relive those moments with them.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
SW-User
@OneLostSoul: Nah. Stay on the lookout for someone to experience life with. It's a lot more fulfilling.
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OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Sad
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AnnieSeeker · 70-79, F
because of my work I am on my own a great deal of the time...but no...I thrive with others...but I have a self contained aspect to my personality
es0tericus · 26-30
I prefer to be, can get more things done, undisturbed with complete freedom.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
es0tericus · 26-30
It is. I didn't say it wasn't.
SW-User
yep almost all my life.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
yes.like my school boys and girls think I am dumb stupid
SW-User
why do they think that
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
For the most part, yes.
SW-User
When I feel like it. It's a lot more peaceful. I know to look for company if I start feeling lonely.
Findingmeagain71 · 51-55, F
Yes, couple friends, few family, small circle less drama
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Yep.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Not at all. Very peaceful.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
You like it
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
99% of the time.
summersong · F
Somewhat.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
You also feel sad?
summersong · F
Sometimes I do, other times I need it to recharge.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Yes
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Don't you feel sad.
I do
I do
@OneLostSoul: not at all, been this way my whole life, guess I'm just used to it
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
I am young.I feel lost
EddieMovie · 31-35, M
Yes and are you?
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Yeah I am .I wrote earlier here
SW-User
most of the times
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OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Yarp means yes?
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Rambler · 61-69, M
I would say so.
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
I really am
SW-User
Kind of
taintedprincess · 46-50, F
Yeah
Yes
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
Very much so