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Is this really annoying or am I being a little mean here?

I go to Indian restaurants with my colleagues where food is shared, so not separate meals. My colleague keeps putting food in my plate and insists on me to try certain things, and this attitude just gets on my nerves, because it becomes too much insisting and I am like just want to eat quietly and if I want something I will try it.... I realise it is a caring attitude but it can get too annoying but it makes me feel mean later on!
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annamarie65 · 56-60, F
why havent you told him how y ou feel?
UnhatchedEgg · 31-35, F
Because he is being caring so I am not sure how to do it but I think my annoyance could show when I am eating lol
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
@UnhatchedEgg: be yourself...be gentle but firm.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
If you dont tell the person honestly that it bothers you, they will just keep doing it, and you will end up being resentful
UnhatchedEgg · 31-35, F
@annamarie65: I do end up as such O.o! I guess I need to learn how to speak out.