@bijouxbroussard: :) ... I will admit that my views may be aggressive.. it is because I have been done harm with that religion thing so I can't take those preachers and their religions anymore, and I specifically hate the preachers who promote open minded ideas under the name of religion I feel they are extra hypocrite because they try and attract people with that fake kind face of religion whereas the other type of preachers show the real face of religion and they do us a favour because it repels people... anyhow, without much of bla bla bla..funny I should mention that when the Pope was elected I was still a believer and I used to quite like him then .. it is because he comforted me that believers are not that bad, that someone as religious as a Pope could actually be accepting of others and could promote open minded idea, as a believer who is peacful and have a good heart I loved these kinds of preachers, they affirmed my faith that we are not all bad (because I was already batteling myself about the bad things I am seeing) funny that when I left my faith I hated his guts no matter what truth or good he said, probably because of the point I made above, probably because I experienced myself how some believers that have a questioning mind could fall in the trap of this fake niceness of religion... you see, you and I have different past experience which is why we are viewing it differently and why we have different emotions towards it and I am sure there is a point in what you are saying plus it is a rational point of view while I admit my views regarding these issues are extra emotional and perhaps not that rational.