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Willowsage 路 41-45, F
According to situation. If just dating no. If married with no children no. If married and have kids Try for kids sake.
I agree
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LindaM 路 61-69, F
@swirlie: i had the experience and it wasnt pretty and when i saw the question i automatically drew my response from what i knew in my own situation but the fact is , anyone who cheats is hurting others around and if they are not happy, then leave..
swirlie 路 31-35, F
@LindaM:
OK, I see where you are coming from now. In your original comment, you were infusing some personal experience as a point of reference. What it appeared to me at first reading however, was that you were targeting men specifically. In truth, you were targeting your own relationship with your partner.
There are a lot of men on this site who would take immediate offense to what you had written and rightly so. Just as women will take immediate offense to some guy who starts putting women down on this website, no different than women (including myself) who rallied for a march against Trump's abusive behavior as he victimized women. I'm all over those guys like a pail of water at a wet T-shirt contest, because I have zero tolerance for that crap.
Thanks for clarifying your post to me and thank you as well for touching on your own personal experiences which I'm sure, most of us can empathize with on a very personal level as well.
OK, I see where you are coming from now. In your original comment, you were infusing some personal experience as a point of reference. What it appeared to me at first reading however, was that you were targeting men specifically. In truth, you were targeting your own relationship with your partner.
There are a lot of men on this site who would take immediate offense to what you had written and rightly so. Just as women will take immediate offense to some guy who starts putting women down on this website, no different than women (including myself) who rallied for a march against Trump's abusive behavior as he victimized women. I'm all over those guys like a pail of water at a wet T-shirt contest, because I have zero tolerance for that crap.
Thanks for clarifying your post to me and thank you as well for touching on your own personal experiences which I'm sure, most of us can empathize with on a very personal level as well.
LindaM 路 61-69, F
hello thank you, i appreciate your response...swirlie:
SW-User
@Poptartinvasion: I know. But when people don't even notice you almost all the time, you take what you can get (even if it goes against what you believe)
SW-User
same
luckranger71 路 51-55, M
Shayla 路 F
It's hard to say. I'm in an open relationship and have encouraged my partner to find another girl. It wouldn't feel like cheating to me.
Shayla 路 F
@swirlie: Not at all. I'm poly. I love him deeply. I just love my other guy too. I'm open and honest with both of them. They are friendly with each other and each encourage me to continue to strengthen my relationship with the other.
Firespirit 路 26-30, M
Sure we are all human but They would need to show change not just I'm sorry
JohnOinger 路 41-45, M
Hell My Marriage would be an Open Marriage
3venus 路 F
Depends on how well I knew them.
SailorMarz 路 F
Why not
The trust would be gone for me which wouldn't make the relationship enjoyable to me
SailorMarz 路 F
ArnoldJRimmer 路 56-60, M
I did.
How'd that work out?
SW-User
Nope.
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@CosmicReality: i feel you