Dolimyte · 41-45, M
What does being sad have to do with anything?
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Madelenie · 26-30, F
Who knows. I don't know those women but I know women can be so dangerous when they want something, men are too easy sometimes
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Marshmallow: yes, we do lack complexity at times. It also has something to do with age Im sure. Young guys tend to think with their, umm you know.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Yeah that starts with d
Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M
Yes both of these scenarios are absolutely ok. There's nothing wrong with comforting someone with a hug, regardless of whether or not one or both of them are in relationships with other people. A hug doesn't have to be sexual. Two friends can genuinely hug for comfort.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
What if that man is significant to that woman?
Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M
@Marshmallow: Well, I'm not saying intimate feelings cant come into play. Im just saying normally a hug here and there should be pretty innocent. But if the girl is more than a little attracted to the guy, and it's happening all the time and the hugs seem to linger for longer than they should, that seems like dangerous grounds.
Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M
Hugging seems to be a grey area. It could be innocent, and it could be completely inappropriate depending on the nature of the hug and how they view each other.
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
sure what the gf doesn't know doesn't hurt. So long as he's not cheating on her.

SW-User
I think it's alright as long as boundaries are established and respected. You know? If everyone agrees and is loyal to those agreements then there shouldn't be any problems. ☺️
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Hello again haha

SW-User
@Marshmallow: Hey there! I'm liking the questions! cx
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
Haaaaa. You're just trying to cause fights!!!!! Lol

SW-User
Its not right.
Hello1978 · 46-50, F
Don't put too much thought into a hug right now but if you feel it's a red flag then keep ur guard...listen to ur own instincts...not from someone else's opinion. A man/boy normally won't be just friends with a female no matter what he says so beware...
Ozdharma · 61-69, M
Yes ... it is an act of compassion not passion and their partner should be ok with it.
Mahjack · 31-35, M
Depends.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Hi Jack! it's been a while..hope you still remember me
Mahjack · 31-35, M
Hello Ssmooothieee! :D Wait, did I get it right? :P
pearllederman · 61-69, F
i wouldnt do it
katarina22 · F
no
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
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RememberMe1 · M
Gotta play the field. Be on the look out for vulnerable women, who need TLC. A little polygamy, so to speak. lol This is only from a man's perspective.
lillyd · F
yeah but if your s.o. is jealous keep it to yourself
Madelenie · 26-30, F
I'd prefer those men be honest and open up to their SO even they are jealous, or it would be much more severe after they find out
lillyd · F
well that is true!! I'm the jealous type though and if my partner wanted to simply comfort a friend I don't need to know
yllacsar · 46-50, M
of course......jealousy is NO fun for anyone involved......if you can't trust your SO to hug/spend time with a needy friend - you're a pathetically jealous ass