Whats the worst thing you did as a people pleaser to please people? or if you are not what is the worst thing you asked a people pleaser to do?

When I was younger, I always put my own needs and desires last. While I’m still a considerate person, I factor in my own wellbeing as well as others. If helping someone else is detrimental to my own health or wellbeing, then I prioritize myself. It’s like putting on your own oxygen mask first on a plane. You can’t help others if you are debilitated.