Ok the lady at work who was giving me a hard time got talked to today.

She got pulled in to the office by the owner and got told to say little to me unless it is work related or unless I'm really screwing up. I got pulled in as well to give him a rundown of what has been going on and that it seems in his eyes she has a tone problem meaning it's not so much what she says but how she says it and comes across. I agreed she does have that issue and i said she's also very overbearing. He still thinks we should have a heart to heart to fully squash it but he understands if I'm not ready for that next step.

I even said i don't hate her i just want to be treated with respect. He even said i don't seem i have it in me to truly hate someone. Hell even yesterday when i was crying and was asked what i think needs to be done i could have said write her up or fire her but i didn't i just said she needs spoken to.