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SW-User
Being rude is more about perception. If the person directly effected thought it was rude, it probably was. If she didn't mind, I'd say it was fine and move on. I think "read the room" is probably the best way to decide.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SW-User Well does the birthday girl asking what you got make a difference?

SW-User
@Mellowgirl not sure. Depends on how she asked I guess