Are you easily influenced?

Today I had a meeting and my lips were dry and I was a little dehydrated...
This happens a lot when I'm anaemic I can drink and drink and drink yet nothing seems to stay in my body.
No I'm not diabetic.
Anyways I had applied lip salve before arriving it had clearly soaked it up very quickly. Because when I sat down to speak the moment I moved my lip, it cracked. It didn't bleed but it definitely cracked.
I licked them and continued.

I don't know what happened after that. If I had starting foaming at the sides of my mouth or if it it just looked painfully dry to her. But I noticed she grabbed her bag and took out her carmex.
Knowing about my lips and what she was doing I resisted the urge to grab mine. Because Im tired of people "influencing" just offer me a glass of water... Or something...
Anyways it was bugging her because I noticed that she grabbed some blue tac that was on her desk and started fiddling with it...

I'm quite a determined person but I'm also incredibly stubborn. Whenever I see this trait in people I always do the exact opposite of what they want me to do...

Am I weird for this?