I feel like a man around petite/ average height woman. Why do I feel this way?

I mean no offense, we’re all beautiful but I don’t feel like a female, even though I dress girly sometimes. I feel like this large man next to tiny, petite or average height women. One of my friend said one time, “You’re going to have to be our muscle and help carry these heavy boxes. We can’t carry those ourselves. We’re little. You’re tall and and stronger than us so you shouldn’t have a problem with that.” They’re 4’10 and 5’2”. I’ve been my sister carry heavy boxes and she’s 5’2”. I got called out for not helping her and I’m the one that should be carrying it since I’m so tall and taller people are strong so they expect more from them. I feel like a man. I did ask her but she said she didn’t need help.
I’m 5’11” 3/4 and large framed. I feel like a dude. Don’t say “That’s a blessing! Be glad you’re tall! So many people wish they were taller and stronger.” I don’t care about my of that shit right now. I don’t mean to sound so blunt and I’m sorry, but that’s how I feel right now.