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Guys you are gonna think im a dummy but i got back together with my ex

I met him over at his moms cause he was fixing her internet while she was at work. We ended up talking it out and he bought me dinner and things went well. We hooked up and i feel dumb for that but i think things will be ok now

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Ducky · 31-35, F

Hey, I got back together with an ex too and now we’re married. 🤷‍♀️

Consider the first time a rehearsal. Sounds silly, but bear with me. Re-examine what went wrong the first time and figure how the two of you can do it right this time. But above all: communication is key. Talk if something upsets you. Encourage him to do the same. And if you two are truly compatible after all, well, that’ll speak for itself. ❤️ Good luck to you! 🤗

If you don’t me saying, he had better damn well appreciate who he has! 😉

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ducky that's what he was saying that he wish i would have said something and i told him it's hard for me to speak up and have those hard conversations and he said baby steps .im glad to hear yo7 got a happy ending though

Ducky · 31-35, F

@apersonnamedit But he was doing something that bothers you as well. If you’re not comfortable with him checking out other ladies and if he respects you, he’ll seek a compromise himself. Learn from your mistakes but also learn when to put your foot down. It’s not always easy, but if your start practicing it, it’ll all lay off when your both happy together.

Maybe this is the start of the happy ending you deserve. Even if not, at least you’ll be able to say you tried. That’s a positive learning experience within itself. But cross that bridge IF you get to it and be happy in the meantime.

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ducky oh im still going to be on the look out for that. If he does look and only look it better not be in front of me. Maybe like look but don't talk to them. We shall see how things go.

Ducky · 31-35, F

@apersonnamedit Just hope it all works out. Good luck, chicken. 💖

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ducky i hope so too. I just feel bad because i didn't really shave and i feel self conscious.

Ducky · 31-35, F

@apersonnamedit Has he ever minded that before? If not, then you’ve got nothing to worry about. If he does mind but you still don’t care for shaving, he’d better get used to it because that’s your body and your choice.

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ducky no he's never mentioned anything but this is worse than he's ever seen it

Ducky · 31-35, F

@apersonnamedit I think you’ll be fine. Wait for him to voice his issues (if any) before fretting. I speak from experience with my own insecurities.