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One thing I hate about TV shows n movies is how easy they make love look.

Guys always get the girls it seems. Where in real life women want their man to be exactly how the women wants, they won't accept men for who they are. You have to be exactly what they want and if your personality/looks/lifestyle aren't 100 percent what they're looking for they'll ghost n ignore you immediately. At least most women seem that way, I'm sure not all are but the ones who aren't are already taken and have 10 guys waiting incase that relationship doesn't work.

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Entheesa · 31-35, F

And the point is that you don't want your girlfriend to be exactly like you want? You want to just settle lol?

Sweetguy024 · 36-40, M

@Entheesa Id accept her issues and help her work on them instead of just dropping her and looking for someone who I'd consider to be a better fit for me. As long as she was willing to work with me too on my faults. I know that's how most real relationships work, just hard to find that. That's why those who do consider themselves lucky

Entheesa · 31-35, F

@Sweetguy024 What issues? You just assume a girl who will be with you have issues? 🤣 Sorry, I know maybe it's not funny to you, but maybe you need to really focus on yourself, and get to a good place, before you consider dating?

A so called real relationship is when two content people find joy in each other's company, and neither of them have personal issues.

Sweetguy024 · 36-40, M

@Entheesa yea that makes sense, just seems like everyone has issues/problems in their lives. It's hard meeting someone who doesn't have some sort of personal issue. Like for me I suck at talking, like I'm kinda dyslexic and mix up my words when talking. Plus I talk without thinking sometimes, I try not too but sometimes I say dumb shit n don't realize it was dumb until afterwards

Entheesa · 31-35, F

@Sweetguy024 Well if you're looking on SW I'm sure they do. And of course you're right, people do have issues in their lives, but usually not issues which they need to work through with their partner. I think when you're a couple, you should not have issues between the two of you, but be there for each other in whatever else life throws at you. =)

Entheesa · 31-35, F

@Sweetguy024 I talk without thinking too, especially here as I usually have a few beers or some vodka before even considering loading the page. 😂

Entheesa · 31-35, F

@Sweetguy024 I'm sorry I'm not being too serious while it seems you're really trying to have a proper conversation here... Care to inbox me? I'll try to listen more.