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i dont know what to do anymore i ghosted this one guy and now he keeps bugging me

it was my last ex I never really did break up with him i just stopped answering his calls and texts and pretty much disappeared and now he's like is there a reason why you arent replying and wants me to call him. i dont want to call him or respond i just want to stay disappeared and silent but i have a feeling if i do respond it will cause a massive argument because the reason i stopped all contact was because he kept looking at other womens photos in front of me and i kept feeling like crap so i just left and cut all contact. i felt like a placeholder like i wasnt worth anything and was only there to satisfy a need until he found someone worth anything

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Ducky · 31-35, F

My advice: just keep ignoring him. He’ll take the hint eventually. If you answer him even for a second, you’ll only open up the possibility of you two getting back together in his eyes. Make it so there is no doubt, even if it’s you telling him you don’t want to speak to him anymore.

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ducky i don't want to hurt him but i just want to be left alone

Ducky · 31-35, F

@apersonnamedit There comes a point where you have to look out for yourself. He’ll get over being hurt, but if you need him out of your life, you should focus on that. That’s my advice, anyway.