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Worst experience in love?

Staying loyal to a guy i was seeing for over a year while clinging onto hope that he would get serious about me and a real relationship would bloom. As much as it was obvious that i was just a booty call i still clung onto hope. He was so hot and cold towards me which confused me a lot. In the beginning we went out places and it was like he wanted to get to know me then we quit going places and eventually it just became hooking up and watching tv in silence in his room while he scrolled on his phone but i stupidly clung to hope.

I ended up ghosting him and fading out of his life slowly because after awhile everytime i saw him more of me died inside. I used to jump at the opportunity to see him and would look forward to it but then i started making excuses and saw the visits as a chore. I felt used but somewhere deep down he loved me? No i was just a idiot that got used

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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

It happens, sweetie, but you will find someone new and it's almost always when you're not expecting it....and, well, people are attracted to confidence so being the most independent gurl that you can be...go out with friends, have a laugh, have fun...you'll get the hunk of your dreams...

For me? God....*deep sigh* I was attracted to this very handsome, uber confident hottie called Dominic....made me feel special....lots of romance....lots of sex....but I'd hear that he'd be bangin' other T-girls too...he'd deny, of course, and with that charming personality, just keep me there, y'know? This happened, this cycle, for well over a year - I'd hear talk, he'd call them rumours and fakery, and we'd carry on.....until I saw him passionately kiss this gurl in the corner of a club. Again, he said that he wasn't doing that....but, well, cupping an individual's breasts whilst you're giving them '...a peck on the cheek' isn't really a friend thing to do is it? Case closed; he's a sleazebag!

Ironically I saw him the other week with his new conquest when out with friends...

Pfft, as they say!

😘