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If your partner could take care of you fully and they would ask you to quit everythign like work and be a stay at home partner, would you accept?

akindheart · 61-69, F
nope. that takes away my power. that creates dependency which I will never be-dependent on another human. it happened once when i was first married. i was in college with a little baby. never again.
popmol · 22-25, M
@akindheart i'm so sorry ;(
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Yes. It’s no different than what I do now being retired. I’m financially independent, but if I’m in love with him, and he with me, then I have nothing to lose at this stage.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi at this stage but what about the past?
Carissimi · 70-79, F
What about it? Past is dead and gone. I’m living in the present. @popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi xD well thats good they say take it day by day!
SW-User
No, thanks.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User do i have too!!!! 😣😫
SW-User
@popmol That's how life goes dear Popmol. 🤗
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User bah! i need a fancy boss lady and i'll become her support pillars!
Fuk no, I like being able to make my own money.
popmol · 22-25, M
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Depends on what ‘take care of me fully’ means. Living in almost poverty or lower middle class as a SHM isn’t something I would choose for myself.
popmol · 22-25, M
@WhateverWorks high middle class to rich class at least
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Yeah, it’s hard to manage these days, which is one reason even if my circumstances were different I’d still choose developing a career of some sort @popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@WhateverWorks how nice :)
karysma · 31-35, F
I don't think so. I don't like feeling like a kid having to ask for everything. I'd probably have a side hustle or something
popmol · 22-25, M
@karysma i understand that
LadyJ · F
Yes..without a doubt...true lady of leisure
popmol · 22-25, M
@LadyJ i'll easily grow out my hair and wear a kilt if that gets me to be a house husband :p
LadyJ · F
@popmol My friend loves kilts..she'd marry you in a heartbeat 😂
popmol · 22-25, M
@LadyJ never tried one but its a manly skirt!
Wiseacre · F
NEVER...i’d die from boredom!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Wiseacre i wouldn't mind i 'd take a whole day to get the best dinner!
Wiseacre · F
That’s nice...still NO!@popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@Wiseacre haha xD
SW-User
no that's unnecessary unless they have a baby
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i don't mind being a house husband but i can't get a baby ;(
SW-User
@popmol society is progressive now so you can turn your dream into reality by getting w some boss woman type
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User god damn that would be so my type :p being under her thumb in the bed room and seeing her come back exhausted and giving her a nice massage and treating her to a delicious meal and seeing her worries melt away!
SW-User
I don’t like the idea of a women taking care of me, so no!
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i woudln't mind!
Not when I was younger... not at all...
popmol · 22-25, M
@Soossie how come miss soossie?
@popmol

Well... now at my age, I need more of peace and calm .... moreover, I already have a good life without having to work in addition to my hubby being there for me if and when needed..... 🤗🤗
popmol · 22-25, M
@Soossie you're so lucky :)
wackidywack · 22-25
hmmmm maybe not. I'm not sure. I still have some ambition in me
popmol · 22-25, M
@wackidywack i don't! take care of me ;(
SW-User
No freakin way
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User why not!?
SW-User
@popmol My life can never revolve around a partner or any other person
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User you definitely have the queenly vibe and attitude!
No....i think its dangerous.

Its a lovely ideal, but not healthy.
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie ooh no i understand but i choose to ignore that all and live in a fantasy :p (its also probably likely going to happen its just a dream after all :p )

i wish i live in a fantasy though! if i was the richest man on earth! i'd make scientists work on figuring out how to create dragons in the lab!

but those are all just dreams :p

but remember if freaky aliens of life give you lemons you make freak alien lemonade!
@popmol oh honey .

Im scared for you , i really am.
I hope life is all that you dream .
💜
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie haha i know if i ever fall in love even if its toxic or a bad one i'll probably stay in it i put myself down there i'm just the type.

luckily no one likes me :p
popmol · 22-25, M
@PepsiColaP you're the monster under the bed of course you wouldn't!
@popmol its a hard job and someones got to boo you
popmol · 22-25, M
@PepsiColaP well when you say boo i give you a good night kiss and fall asleep! you must feel lonely though since i go to bed around morning :p
popmol · 22-25, M
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Not typically but I am not working anyways so sure
popmol · 22-25, M
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lilnonames haha i get that but i wouldn't mind i could spoil them by making delicious meals!
Lilnonames · F
@popmol that's different you are not just buying a meal for them
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lilnonames i know but i woudln't mind being a house husband!
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popmol · 22-25, M
@swirlie why?
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