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Why does this guy keep picking on me so much and not so much on the other girls (he doesn’t like me)?

I mean we knew him since sophomore year and he was in our special education class right. Cool guy but very sarcastic and witty and blunt. He would always give me such a hard time. He would pick on me, be sarcastic with me and whatever. He did that so many times. He did tease the other girls but mostly me. NO he didn’t like me like that. He has crushes on other girls. One time he kept trying to mess with me and push me (not physically) to see if I would react and fight back but he got annoyed and said, “You’re WEAK.” And walked off.
One of my friends stands up to him when he does that but it was playful teasing. He doesn’t mess with her much since she doesn’t take shit from anybody. He says he likes girls that fight back and stand up for myself unlike a spineless wimp like me. That hurt when he said that. My best friend scolded at him for that.
I haven’t seen him since high school. Thank god. A lot of people like him because he’s a cool guy but I didn’t like him too much.
Thank god I don’t see him anymore since we graduated last year.

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TwiddlerofThumbs · F

maybe he sees you as an easy target for his abuse.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs He doesn’t do that to my best friend or the other girls

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

ya, you don't stand up for yourself. you don't play the game. @LaylaTheTallGirl

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs What game? My ex best friends called me weak for letting people especially guys disrespect me like that and I complain about getting no respect. Even my own father called me weak and he was frustrated about that. He wasn’t afraid to call me weak when my twin male cousins disrespected me. It bugged me so much it his words won’t get out my head.

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl So, change something.
and what game? the exact game you described.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs So you support my best friends and dad for calling me weak?

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl I think you are playing victim and Victims are treated as weak. Try doing something about it..

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs I AM NOT PLAYING THE VICTIM!!!!!!!!!! You ARE taking their side!
When I was a little girl I wasn’t called weak for being a push over and dad never got in my face but told me to stand up for myself but now I’m an adult people have less sympathy for me. Why are people tougher on me now that I’m an adult?!

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl because you're still a victim. its pretty easy to spot, and as a victim it makes you a target. you don't want to be one, then you need to change some things.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs I’m not a target!!! 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔
I am so sick of people nagging at me for this. My family picks on me and tells me to stop acting like a child and be an adult bad it isn’t fun and games. I want people to leave me alone! Even my older half siblings told me I need to just do it and I need to change. Being autistic doesn’t mean I have to act like a damn child.

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl you relish in your fake stories and posts about hurt and pain and what others will or won't do about it.
its depressing.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs MY STORIES ARE NOT FAKE! All the stories I’ve posted are true! It’s the truth! You’re mean!

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

😑 right. @LaylaTheTallGirl

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs you don’t care about my feelings! I’m blocking you! Don’t comments on my posts ever again!