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Was it right for my grandma to force me outta bed this morning? I wanna lay all day again.

Ever since my dad died in March and I lost my job in mid April, I’ve been super depressed. The loss of my dad besides my mother is the WORST kind of pain! I’ve been laying in bed everyday since I lost my job and after my college classes ended. I failed my classes because I was unfocused. So for weeks. I lost my best friends and other three friends because not only I kept declining fun activities but I’ve been mean and nasty to them.
All I did was lay in bed, crying, sulking, eating junk food and watching tv.
This morning my grandma came straight into my room and dragged me out of bed and told me, “Alright young lady, that does it! Out of bed. You’re not going to lay there all day and sulk. We’re not going to let you! Take a damn shower, get dressed and let’s go. We’re not taking no for an answer today!”
I don’t know where they’re taking me. I miss my daddy. 💔😭😭😭
I wanna stay home and cry in my bed.

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ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

Look like I said in your last post, laying around all day isn’t going to help at all! At least talk to them and see how their doing? Your grandparents don’t have much long on this planet and you’re taking it for granted. I see by the way you posted you took your dad for granted too. Your grandma‘s doing you a favor. Get your whiny and selfish ass up, take a shower, eat breakfast brush your teeth, groom yourself and get on with your damn day!! Don’t get mad at us when you asked for advice and we gave you an honest one! By the look on your other post your ex friends are right! You asked for honesty and you get it and you scream at us! You know what I’m done with you. DONE. There’s no point of trying to help you if you’re going to keep being a whiny selfish baby. That’s what I’m telling you the truth. I’m done. I’m no longer going to be answering your post because you’re just gonna scream and yell. Should be ashamed of yourself for acting so dumb and stupid. Also disrespecting your elders. DONE!

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Rhode57 · 56-60, M

I hope you read my comment on the last post you put up if not please go read it .

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caPnAhab · 26-30, M

@Rhode57 I know. I mean no harm

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Be patient girl autism is hard to understand I have been lucky to be around autistic kids since my youngest boy was young , his best friend is autistic so I understand more than most .

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Rhode57 Oh you do?

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

The loss is enormous, but remember they still want us to keep living and do well.

eyeno · M

Awww... ms. Member (hugs)

For me it took 8mo. of greiving and almost lost my job because my sales were down. One woman told me, it took her eight years to grieve.

As far as your family its because they care about you, though they come off negatively to you.

Ecclesiastes 3

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@eyeno this is exactly why I don’t tell them about my feelings anymore but I still think I’m being dramatic and tell me to get over myself. I always get bashed and criticized for expressing my feelings.

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