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Tyler20 · 22-25, M
Why Doesn’t she want you in her life
@Tyler20 her dad badmouthed me after our divorce and she took his side
Tyler20 · 22-25, M
I am really sorry to hear that. Something similar has had in my family. @SimplyMeChantou
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
I am in the same spot with my daughter.
It's been six very long years since I have seen her. She was 11 the last time. She's now 16 and working and driving and I missed out on all of that.
I get mad at her at times. And just say f*** her. She can have her f****** life without me. But that doesn't last long.
It's very difficult to have someone of your own flesh and blood choose to not want to be in your company.
I think everyone means well when they say she will come around but I think the truth is she is gone and I am just a face from her past.
It's been six very long years since I have seen her. She was 11 the last time. She's now 16 and working and driving and I missed out on all of that.
I get mad at her at times. And just say f*** her. She can have her f****** life without me. But that doesn't last long.
It's very difficult to have someone of your own flesh and blood choose to not want to be in your company.
I think everyone means well when they say she will come around but I think the truth is she is gone and I am just a face from her past.
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@Dainbramadge im sorry that happens to dads :( ill always love my daddy
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@SimplyMeChantou I get very emotional on the topic of her as well.
Hell I am tearing up just writing this.
I can feel your pain and I am also so sorry you have to feel this.
Being a parent wasn't supposed to hurt this damn bad.
I have two boys that do see me and we have a wonderful relationship. But there is still that huge hole where she should be.
I wish you the best of luck in re-establishing your relation ship with her.
I am sure you feel just as I do and have not given up on dreaming just yet.
Hell I am tearing up just writing this.
I can feel your pain and I am also so sorry you have to feel this.
Being a parent wasn't supposed to hurt this damn bad.
I have two boys that do see me and we have a wonderful relationship. But there is still that huge hole where she should be.
I wish you the best of luck in re-establishing your relation ship with her.
I am sure you feel just as I do and have not given up on dreaming just yet.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@TryingtoLava Daddy's little girl just like it should be.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Carissimi · 70-79, F
It breaks your heart when there is that kind of emotional separation from your child. As a mother, you can’t forget, and you never stop being concerned for their welfare, even when they are adults. It’s a mother’s cross to bear, unfortunately. I am so sorry. {hug}
smiler2012 · 56-60
sorry too hear that you really must really be hurting by what your daughter is doing . may it is time for her to end this and let byegones be byegones [someoneiusedtoknow]
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Loss is loss whether you are separated by death or by choices you have no control over. I can relate to that pain and sadness. You find a way to cope with it but it won't be forgotten.
Teslin · M
Keep trying. I obviously don't know the reason why, but hopefully someday soon she will open up to you. Family is first.