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humidtiddies · 22-25, F
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@humidtiddies you're sweet.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Not at all. They didn't choose to be spoiled. It's just circumstance. If that would be ok then the logic behind it is: we can mistreat others based on their socio-economic status. Therefore it would mean it's also ok for spoiled rich people to mistreat you for being poor and not spoiled.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Mellowgirl I understand your train of thought.
Behavior like that shouldn't be encouraged but I believe this "to each their own". Unless they're a loved one who need to be taught, I won't intervene. I wouldn't want to watch someone I care wander a wrong path. But at the same time "actions have repercussions. The higher you go, the harder you fall". They'll learn it eventually. Life is never fair.
Behavior like that shouldn't be encouraged but I believe this "to each their own". Unless they're a loved one who need to be taught, I won't intervene. I wouldn't want to watch someone I care wander a wrong path. But at the same time "actions have repercussions. The higher you go, the harder you fall". They'll learn it eventually. Life is never fair.
4meAndyou · F
🤔🤔🤔 If a spoiled person says that they are terribly unhappy, and they don't know why, then it might be that their expectations are far too high...because they are spoiled.
In general, life itself hands out lessons that are so hard we sometimes wonder if we're going to survive...and the young and spoiled have the worst time in coping with this.
I would personally not involve myself in creating hardships for anyone because that decision is up to God...and to life.
In general, life itself hands out lessons that are so hard we sometimes wonder if we're going to survive...and the young and spoiled have the worst time in coping with this.
I would personally not involve myself in creating hardships for anyone because that decision is up to God...and to life.
Iwillwait · M
No.
Anyone who would maliciously cause more stress or distress to another simply because they have "More than," is absolutely wrong and pathetic.
I work my butt off to be able to provide for my child and if they were perceived as "Spoiled," because they have more things, that is no reason to be spiteful or harmful to them by making things harder.
Anyone who would maliciously cause more stress or distress to another simply because they have "More than," is absolutely wrong and pathetic.
I work my butt off to be able to provide for my child and if they were perceived as "Spoiled," because they have more things, that is no reason to be spiteful or harmful to them by making things harder.
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Tython · 31-35, M
It depends on the kind of spoiled.
Do they buy themselves the expensive stuff with theit own money? Are they simply unaware of other's financial struggles because they were never exposed to such things?
Or do they expect to get whatever they want? Do they believe others exist only to assist them?
There's self endulgent, privelaged, entitled, extra, etc. Different kinds of spoiled and while some are justifies others are not.
Do they buy themselves the expensive stuff with theit own money? Are they simply unaware of other's financial struggles because they were never exposed to such things?
Or do they expect to get whatever they want? Do they believe others exist only to assist them?
There's self endulgent, privelaged, entitled, extra, etc. Different kinds of spoiled and while some are justifies others are not.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Tython but why is any of that any of your business?
If you ever become a parent don't you want to be ae to provide the best for your child?
Would it be acceptable for someone to make your child feel like shit if they're from a slightly privileged environment?
And that could simply be, being raised by two parents...
If you ever become a parent don't you want to be ae to provide the best for your child?
Would it be acceptable for someone to make your child feel like shit if they're from a slightly privileged environment?
And that could simply be, being raised by two parents...
Tython · 31-35, M
@Mellowgirl It becomes my business, and anyone else's for that matter, if these spoiled tendancies become harmful in some way to me, mine, or the public. Thousands of "Karan" videos exist in this catagory. A sense of entitlement doesn't excuse you from consequences. If it's simply hubris or an annoying personality, I'll make my assuptions and opinions but I would do nothing to the person until they pose some threat.
Also, your original question specifies adults. Children are a slightly different matter.
I hope to raise my own kids soon, but so far just my neices and nephews. And I have done all I can to provide them the best life possible. This includes raising them with a healthy sense of humility, empathy, kindness, self-worth, etc. If someone sees this and thinks them spoiled and deserving of poor treatment, it sounds more like that person is suffering fromt their own mental and/or emotional issues.
If someone acts in a harmful way towards another simply for having two parents then it seems there's something wrong with the later. Some kind of infferiority complex, perhaps? If this is their only reason then it's entirely unjustified.
Basically, one cannot know what troubles others have gone or are currently going through. However, that does not excuse those others from mistreatment of more people. People have lived with loving parents, caring friends, and a healthy environment. Meanwhile, another could be an orphan abused and neglected by foster families. Neither has any justification in mistreating those uninvolved in their lives.
It's not acceptable to make anyone feel bad for their upbringing. An environment or series of events likely beyond their control. It is, however, acceptable to hold those accountable for their actions.
Please excuse any typos. I'm a bit tired when typing this. 😅
Also, your original question specifies adults. Children are a slightly different matter.
I hope to raise my own kids soon, but so far just my neices and nephews. And I have done all I can to provide them the best life possible. This includes raising them with a healthy sense of humility, empathy, kindness, self-worth, etc. If someone sees this and thinks them spoiled and deserving of poor treatment, it sounds more like that person is suffering fromt their own mental and/or emotional issues.
If someone acts in a harmful way towards another simply for having two parents then it seems there's something wrong with the later. Some kind of infferiority complex, perhaps? If this is their only reason then it's entirely unjustified.
Basically, one cannot know what troubles others have gone or are currently going through. However, that does not excuse those others from mistreatment of more people. People have lived with loving parents, caring friends, and a healthy environment. Meanwhile, another could be an orphan abused and neglected by foster families. Neither has any justification in mistreating those uninvolved in their lives.
It's not acceptable to make anyone feel bad for their upbringing. An environment or series of events likely beyond their control. It is, however, acceptable to hold those accountable for their actions.
Please excuse any typos. I'm a bit tired when typing this. 😅
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Repete · 70-79, M
Not make life hard for them but not make life easier for them either. Spoiled or not life goes on and everything isn’t just handed to those that think others should do everything for them. That’s my opinion.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Repete again, isn't it about the person as an individual?
Repete · 70-79, M
It might be but when is it ok for that one spoiled person to make life even harder for everyone else. I believe we are all equal we all need to do our parts not our parts and the parts of a spoiled brat.as long as they are capable of doing their part.@Mellowgirl
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iamelijah · 26-30, M
Personally, yes. 🤣
They got too many privileged and need to taste a bit hardship of life.
They got too many privileged and need to taste a bit hardship of life.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
@Mellowgirl My bad. Just ignored what I've said.
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@Mellowgirl I think you are exposing behavioral class differences, in particular the differences in cultural interests. People who were "pampered" could be more into individualistic activities because they were allowed "lonely" moments. But it's not always linked with family incomes. When socializing is nothing more than bullying, the group has got isssues to deal with.
Ironicman · 56-60, M
Stop spoiling them
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Generally: no
But if you hate them and they're truly a bad person, then yes.
But if you hate them and they're truly a bad person, then yes.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@luckranger71 what makes them a bad person?
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
@Mellowgirl Listen, at almost 1 in the morning here, I'm virtually out of wisdom. You're going to have to do this on your own. 😇😎
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@luckranger71 then please retract your comment
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
No why do you want to do that for
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@MoonaNorth86 I don't want to but others seem to think this behaviour is acceptable
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
Ok so@Mellowgirl
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M