If someone asks you a question rudely,how do you respond?

I didn't get the humour.

@NewBeginings: I never said that you had to get the humor

@TheNintendoGamerNoMercyTickler: huh?

But that's putting yourself in a lower position .

@NewBeginings: actually I try not to let people rent space in my brain, with various degrees of success

@Cognosco: and how?

"Look dude, I don't know what kind of day you're having, but being rude to me isn't going to make it better. If anything it'll make it worse because now there's two pissed off people in the room instead of one. Chill out."

Thanks.that's a good way to handle it.

If that time never comes?

It always comes.

Okay.

That's a good way.

No,but a text from a close friend who is rude to you?

@NewBeginings: If it was a close friend I would call them out on it and say that what they just said was rude. I figure if they are my friends they should be able to handle my bluntness

What do you say later when confronted?

@NewBeginings: Somehow, in rl, people rarely do. 😒