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I'm almost 45, and have pretty much been single my whole life.

I always wanted a guy up till just the last few months since I started seeing a guy. I realized, I've been single so long, I could never actually live with a guy. Would cramp my style. And just stuff like me hopping in the car with someone. Nope.. I can't stand not having control of the car. When I'm not all by myself, I feel out of my element

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Fluffybull · F

Why do you have to "hop in a car" with someone? Have your own car.

swandfriends · 41-45, F

I do have my own and always have. That's what I'm used to, and that's one part of having a guy. Sometimes they don't want to be the passenger either, and when I'm the passenger I never have fun, plus guys show off when they drive and I never feel safe. I have to listen to their music. And just feel out of control

Beebo · M

@swandfriends Not this guy .. You drive, throw on whatever for music, rock yourself out, while I have the luxury of being in the passenger seat woofing down donuts and coffee, lol

Fluffybull · F

@swandfriends You're obviously picking the wrong guys then.

swandfriends · 41-45, F

I had a guy once I was very compatible with but he died. But even if I drive, it's still cramped considering I'm so used to being by myself. I actually don't like to get in anyone's car

Fluffybull · F

@swandfriends Well don't then! You have your car, he has his car. Works perfectly for other people. If you think that's the greatest "problem" in a relationship.....😆