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Do you self sabotage?

I'm so used to being rejected that, I've noticed any time something seems to be going OK. I do something to mess it up.

This then in turn makes situations turn for the worst giving me an excuse to walk away.

I don't want to be this way.
And I am trying to do better.
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DeWayfarer61-69, M
Of course I do! And do it purposely!

I don't consider it a bad thing either. It's my subconscious speaking out in protest to what it sees happening!

It's a good trait, IF you want to be honest with yourself. If want to follow a long with the crowd it's a bad thing.

So do you want to be honest with yourself, or do want to follow along with the crowd? 馃

I don't like crowds!
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@DeWayfarer each to their own really.
DeWayfarer61-69, M
@Mellowgirl notice I gave two direction on this only. I just simplified it since I knew which direction you would pick. It's actually more complicated than just two directions.
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@DeWayfarer and that's OK.
I don't really know what to say to you. Some people are stronger on their own.. But whilst your nearing the end of life. I'm only starting. The world no longer wants people to be individuals well not unless you can influence. And since I'm not about what they want people to influence in trying what I can to find my place.
DeWayfarer61-69, M
@Mellowgirl oh you'll influence others no matter what you believe.

As to your place only you can determine that. If you want to be a big influencer you could be. Not saying you want to be. Just that you can.

As to my age... My words will be around long after I'm gone, yet not so long to be of any significance.

So will your own words! 馃榿