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A woman told me I was a pervy creep for liking big boobs

I got told this at work by a co worker during a conversation with another one, she was listening in like a snoop and said this to me lol. 馃槀
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REMsleep41-45, F
You should learn not to discuss anything sexual at work. More problems than anything can come from that. Someone who overhears can be uncomfortable and that is a protected form of sexual harassment in the workplace.
It can get you fired or worse.
Protect yourself.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@REMsleep Sexual harassment? That's bullshit and downright offensive to people who actually have been harassed!
iamonfire69641-45, F
@JimFarris16 you don鈥檛 know what sexual harassment is.

[quote] Sexual Harassment - behavior characterized by the making of unwelcome and inappropriate sexual remarks or physical advances in a workplace or other professional or social situation. [/quote]
REMsleep41-45, F
@JimFarris16 Some people do use that form of harassment in a real way. Imagine if I have a really big butt and every time I go into the break room a couple of the guys start talking about how they like big butts and I know that they are doing it because they are looking at me while they're saying it because I have a big butt. This can make a person extremely uncomfortable and it is definitely harassment so it's not silly that overhearing conversations can be considered harassment even though you might not have been doing that. That is why that protection exsists.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@REMsleep exactly but he doesn鈥檛 want to hear this. When he goes to his manager about it, he is the one who is going to get in trouble.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@REMsleep That's not sexual harassment, nobody was even talking about her.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@iamonfire696 Neither of us did any of that.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@iamonfire696 If women talked like that around me, I wouldn't feel harassed in the slightest.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@JimFarris16 talking about sex at work is sexual harassment. Go ahead and tell your boss and see where it gets you. If you were smart you wouldn鈥檛.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@iamonfire696 I will, I feel violated personally.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@REMsleep If women talked like that around me, I wouldn't feel harassed in the slightest. She listened into a conversation she shouldn't have been listening to, I should report her to HR for this shit!
iamonfire69641-45, F
@JimFarris16 let us know how that goes 馃槀. I wouldn鈥檛 feel harassed but it鈥檚 harassment nonetheless.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@iamonfire696 it's not harassment lol.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@JimFarris16 yet all of these people are telling you that you shouldn鈥檛 be talking like that at work
JimFarris1618-21, M
@iamonfire696 she shouldn't be listening to other people's conversations like that at work, we both hate each other now. I'm either reporting her to HR or getting a restraining order, or both.
REMsleep41-45, F
@JimFarris16 I don't know if you are being serious or intentionally trolling. You aren't in the position of a woman so that type of feeling dosen't apply to you if you are comfortable.
JimFarris1618-21, M
@REMsleep That doesn't apply to me because I'm not a woman? That's some double standard bullshit. A man could easily feel sexually harassed by women.