I would give them tough love and say tutors are not going to waste their time on someone that won’t take their education and all that! Tutors are their to help you and they expect you to learn that shit. If you’re in college you’re going to be wasting financial aid‘s time and if parents are paying for college they just wasting THEIR money on someone that is careless about their education, don’t put the foot into the work and just throwing money away.