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My boyfriend and I have been together for three months and we were happy but....

Things are starting to go downhill. He found out that I have autism. Well Asperger’s syndrome and it’s kind of straining our relationship. He starts calling me and texting me A lot less like whenever I try to call him he doesn’t answer. Of course I give him space for a couple of days but then after that I’ll call him again he still doesn’t answer. I really don’t understand and my friends tell me I should dump him because there’s something not right about him. My best friend HATES him and try to convince me to break up with him but I didn’t wanna listen to her so I told her to mind her own business. She keeps telling me that he treat me like crap he flirts with the girls right in front of me and he doesn’t even contact me. My other friends don’t like them either you’re my family isn’t fond of him. I don’t know how he found out that I am autistic but I have a feeling he’s gonna break up with me. I don’t understand why my family and friends don’t like them that much. I’ve been so happy in the relationship and I just don’t understand. I just turned 27 and I’m three years away from turning 30 and I don’t wanna be single by then.
WillaKissing · 56-60, T
Please do not settle or grab a hold of a guy just because of idea about your age.
DizzyLizzy94 · 26-30, F
[@799841,WillaKissing] Yeah those are good points
exotically · 22-25, F
three nights is a long time...sounds like you’re being overly cautious and should maybe start dating other people again
exotically · 22-25, F
[@1184578,JulesKittyKat] she should find another boyfriend
JulesKittyKat · 18-21, F
[@868780,exotically] True. I thought she said he’s cute but look should not matter. But there is have to be an attraction.
exotically · 22-25, F
[@1184578,JulesKittyKat] there is definitely have to be an attraction and sometimes look matter
Look I dunno but everyone but you says something I'd listen. And if mi BFF said that I'd listen, we have always stood up for each other in our own way.
DizzyLizzy94 · 26-30, F
[@1149742,Natasha2020] well good for you. I mean I did hear her out but she’s saying harsh and she keeps dissing him. She is brutal sometimes.
HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40
It's better to be single than to be with a "man" who can't see past your syndrome enough to treat you as you deserve to be treated.
DizzyLizzy94 · 26-30, F
[u][/u][@421598,Becksta] I know but I really really like them a lot plus he is cute.
JulesKittyKat · 18-21, F
Sounds like he might me cheating on you. Sorry to say but it might be true. You better listen to your friends no your family and hear them out. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Just autism/aspergers is not a good enough reason to act that way. It definitely sounds like something is wrong with him. I have known very sweet autistic people and also autistic people that just happen to be jerks as well. But just the condition itself is not a good enough reason to treat someone like crap.
But yeah I know what it feels like to be single at your age as well.
DizzyLizzy94 · 26-30, F
[@406636,causernamebemyusername] Yeah. He can’t let my disability stop us from having a relationship. He said he really is in love with me well was. I just don’t get it
I loved someone who started ignoring for months. She didn't reply me for like 6 months. That's how people are.
DizzyLizzy94 · 26-30, F
[@1158409,littlepuppywantanewlife] That really makes me mad and I don’t understand
[@1023345,DizzyLizzy94] I lost hopes. I would die alone.

 
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