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Heres a situation.

So this guy i used to work with. We hated eachother for years but still worked together. I kind of look at him as a father figure at one point when i had noone. Its years later now and im in a different place minding my own business. Hes still sending people to break into my truck, steal my shit and spreading lies about me. I walk out the door, theres people watching me. I come home he has a buddy in my parking spot. I bet he made a fake Facebook account for me. People aproach me claiming im something im not. Cops cant do anything about it. If i confront him about it one of us will probably die and things wont change. My family will still be affected by him. What do i do about this?

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elafina · 36-40, F

does he come from a castaneda, rasputin or other sort of similar, smaller scaled clan then, or does he act entirely on his own, what do you think?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@elafina oh yes theres definitely a clan of sorts.

elafina · 36-40, F

@GuyWithOpinions but is that really or does he make it appear so?

elafina · 36-40, F

@GuyWithOpinions i have faced a weird situation years ago but from another edge, i had a boyfriend who turned violent towards me, although our relationship had nothing that would drive it there, nor his regular behaviours were so, but he was "advised" by a strange guy to act violently towards me, as a lesson to him, and to see where that leads. To break up apparently. Perhaps that was the plan from the beginning, i was a small obstacle towards his "training".

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@elafina no. The people that fuck with me are serious people. They know what they are doing. I see him in public at times, iv driven by his house. Its like he knows when im around. It used to be every few months something happens. Now its becoming weekly. They know when i come home and Where i work. I was aproached by a guy at a gas station and he was asking me what tools i have at my job site. Made small talk and left. Tools go missing.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@elafina im sorry to hear that. People are fucked.

elafina · 36-40, F

@GuyWithOpinions So, you become crazy and do the detective so to collect clues about him and to confront him in a way that he won't be able to see, sideways. Do not expose him directly, always sideways. But that'll consume lots of energy out of you.
Another thing, you move across the globe. But really across, and change looks and habits too. But that's in case you would like a fresh start as well.
In any case, i'd make sure a couple of people around you who know him, and who you trust, know about this. Just knowing.
Or you could let time dissolve it, although it is always easier said than done. He doesn't sound like he's going to let you get out that easily... but then again, he counts on cultivating that belief within you too!

What are you thinking to do, do you have any plans?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@elafina i should have left 5 years ago.. but i stayed and this is where its at. Iv thought up plan after plan in anger but when i wait and think it through i cant do those things because it would destroy my current life. Im trying to better my life and get away from all this shit. But he really hates me. And i hate him. I do need to just leave. But would his shit follow me? Would he target my family because im not there to defend them? This is the bind im in.