Do guys care about stretch marks? I'm really insecure about mine and I feel like I should warn the guy before we hook up or something.
First year university I was a chunky monkey and gained a good 40lbs. I went from 180 lbs to 130 lbs in a few months and stretch marks showed up like delayed I guess because they appeared when I had already dropped the weight.
Anyways, I have a few like silvery marks under my belly button that I'm really insecure about. Also if I sit in specific ways my skin on my torso looks a little loose. Not noticeable unless I am sitting hunched over. But I'm still insecure and frustrated about both. I feel mad I let myself get so chubby because I ruined my body basically for curly fries.
Sorry I keep rambling. Anyways, this guy who's probably the hottest guy thats every been into me wants to hangout and I actually like him a lot. But I don't want to go through the heartbreak of someone commenting on them or not wanting to be with me because of them. He seems nice enough but I have guy friends and I hear how they talk about girl's bodies you know.
I don't want to sentence myself to a life alone by being scared to show guys my body and whatever, but I'm very hesitant. Do guys care that much? Like would it be a deal breaker? Should I tell him ahead of time so he doesn't think I catfished him? He is in my classes so I can't really deal with seeing him everyday after this if he decides I'm gross.
Anyways, I have a few like silvery marks under my belly button that I'm really insecure about. Also if I sit in specific ways my skin on my torso looks a little loose. Not noticeable unless I am sitting hunched over. But I'm still insecure and frustrated about both. I feel mad I let myself get so chubby because I ruined my body basically for curly fries.
Sorry I keep rambling. Anyways, this guy who's probably the hottest guy thats every been into me wants to hangout and I actually like him a lot. But I don't want to go through the heartbreak of someone commenting on them or not wanting to be with me because of them. He seems nice enough but I have guy friends and I hear how they talk about girl's bodies you know.
I don't want to sentence myself to a life alone by being scared to show guys my body and whatever, but I'm very hesitant. Do guys care that much? Like would it be a deal breaker? Should I tell him ahead of time so he doesn't think I catfished him? He is in my classes so I can't really deal with seeing him everyday after this if he decides I'm gross.
22-25, F
