How do you feel when being ignored by someone you care about? (Online)
It just makes me feel pretty crap honestly, I just start thinking that I've done something wrong or they're having a hard time...
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Meatboy · 18-21, M
@Secret6620 Absolutely 🙂
SW-User
I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing, I haven't noticed if I'm being ignored. There was one person who stopped communicating with me a long time ago that I thought I cared about. Sadly, I realized very quickly, I was actually relieved they stopped communication.
Not sure if this will help you but, whatever is going on with the person, it's solely their issue. Please don't make it into yours. If they're having a hard time, they are dealing with it on their own because that's how they handle things. If you've done something wrong and they aren't telling you, it's their problem, not yours. It's all about them, not you.
I'm sorry you feel crappy. Keep in mind, they might still get in touch with you when they've dealt with whatever they're dealing with.
Here's a hug. 🤗
Not sure if this will help you but, whatever is going on with the person, it's solely their issue. Please don't make it into yours. If they're having a hard time, they are dealing with it on their own because that's how they handle things. If you've done something wrong and they aren't telling you, it's their problem, not yours. It's all about them, not you.
I'm sorry you feel crappy. Keep in mind, they might still get in touch with you when they've dealt with whatever they're dealing with.
Here's a hug. 🤗
Meatboy · 18-21, M
@SW-User I understand that but for me I care about my friends a lot, I just can't sit there and let them deal with it on their own, all I want is to be there for them, personally that's what I think a friend should do.
If you're upset your friend would look after you (my friend isn't upset this is just a scenario)
Thanks anyways though and thanks for the hug. I appreciate it 🤗
Have a great rest of your day
If you're upset your friend would look after you (my friend isn't upset this is just a scenario)
Thanks anyways though and thanks for the hug. I appreciate it 🤗
Have a great rest of your day
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
ExperienceDLT · M
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Meatboy · 18-21, M
@ExperienceDLT That's a bad outlook on that, caring doesn't mean pain
Caring about people is wonderful, you take care of the people who you care about
Caring is a gift, not a curse
I'm sorry you don't realise that, dude
Caring about people is wonderful, you take care of the people who you care about
Caring is a gift, not a curse
I'm sorry you don't realise that, dude
Meatboy · 18-21, M
@ExperienceDLT Already have, multiple times. You just know who to care about and who you shouldn't care about
LilPuckBunny · F
abooklover · 56-60, F
OogieBoogie · F
OogieBoogie · F
@Meatboy I appreciate you trying to understand.
I did reach out....more than once .
But when the psychologist is looking at you like your life is the most interesting tv series they ever heard....and does nothing after you've torn your nightmares open to them.
You sorta give up.
My past isn't entertainment for others.
I did reach out....more than once .
But when the psychologist is looking at you like your life is the most interesting tv series they ever heard....and does nothing after you've torn your nightmares open to them.
You sorta give up.
My past isn't entertainment for others.