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Happiness is more important than impressing.
But it's not as simple as that.
For starters, no living being can be happy 100% of the time.
The trick is, how do we respond when we're not happy? Do we deal with it in a constructive and creative way, or do we have a temper tantrum and use it as an opportunity for conflict?
Because every individual is different, it is inevitable that needs sometimes clash.
It's possible to learn skills of communication and intimacy that make it far easier to resolve these differences.
The test is, does an argument lead to a place where you understand and love each other more?
If so, you're on the right track to a successful relationship.
Impressing comes in many forms.
If you've done something well and if that thing is intrinsic to your values and goals,
and if she is impressed by it -
then you will be attractive to her in a way that is real and honest on both sides.
But if you try to do something solely for the sake of impressing her, it's likely to backfire.
But it's not as simple as that.
For starters, no living being can be happy 100% of the time.
The trick is, how do we respond when we're not happy? Do we deal with it in a constructive and creative way, or do we have a temper tantrum and use it as an opportunity for conflict?
Because every individual is different, it is inevitable that needs sometimes clash.
It's possible to learn skills of communication and intimacy that make it far easier to resolve these differences.
The test is, does an argument lead to a place where you understand and love each other more?
If so, you're on the right track to a successful relationship.
Impressing comes in many forms.
If you've done something well and if that thing is intrinsic to your values and goals,
and if she is impressed by it -
then you will be attractive to her in a way that is real and honest on both sides.
But if you try to do something solely for the sake of impressing her, it's likely to backfire.
alimcandenizkusu · 26-30, M
@hartfire thank you for great opinions I will try to do