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What is main point to be happy in a relationship or impress a woman?

İf anyone can teach me please do it!
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The main point is to feel free to be yourself, and love another for being themselves - and to feel that special bond of true connection.
alimcandenizkusu · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie great opinion now I must find out how to find a woman to talk hahahh
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@OogieBoogie why is this so hard to find??
alimcandenizkusu · 22-25, M
@KuroNeko womens refuse me bacuse of my appearance
@KuroNeko I think because not everyone is honest with potential partners about what they really want upfront and wait to reveal it gradually. Which is never a good idea.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@alimcandenizkusu maybe they are doing you a favour. You don't want anyone who would write you off just like that.
alimcandenizkusu · 22-25, M
@KuroNeko maybe
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere in my experience very few people are honest with themselves even. They are often trying to follow a societal norm in their approach to relationships and it just doesn't fit.
alimcandenizkusu · 22-25, M
@KuroNeko its true but ı feel so broken in other way I am confused
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@alimcandenizkusu then you need to take some time to figure out who you are and what you want. You don't want to take your issues into a relationship, they will only be exacerbated.
@alimcandenizkusu You are a little young to feel broken. Broken is usually what happens when you are abused, treated like crap, and mocked by people who don't know you or your situation over and over again. Not getting a date shouldn't make you feel like that.

However, having real friends who treasure and respect you [i]can[/i] be healing in that situation.

Here's the thing about "issues" and relationships. Everyone has their own way of thinking. And people who love you will understand your issues and love you regardless. Those are decent people. People who don't understand your issues, are not the kind of people you need or want in your life. That doesn't give you a right to use your issues as an excuse to be a dick. But no one who is worth your time will reject you or mock you because of who you are.

Edit: Nor will someone who is worth your time mock you because of how you feel.