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I was skinny until puberty hit. Some people told me I look better than I did when I was skinny. So fat is better?

Believe it or not, I was a skinny, tall child! I started puberty when I was 10 and I got taller and gained weight and got fat. I lost weight before but I gained it back. One said, “Well you look better now because you have curves!”
A lot of people say people look better when they’re adults than when they were skinny kids/teenagers. I also got told, “Well you’re a young woman. You blossomed so of course you’re going to have more weight on you as an adult. You look good now than then. That was before I got to 251lbs. When I was 10 I was 5’6 and 120lbs. Yes I was 5’7 at age 10!
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teechme · 18-21, F
I hated being skinny because I looked like a boy. I'm just sort of average now but I feel a lot better this way.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme I didn’t mind being skinny but my friends hated being skinny and they love the way they look now. They told me I have curves and I should be happy with that and it’s better than being skinny. I don’t understand why people hated being thin.
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl I just wanted to not look like a boy anymore.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme Ooooh okay got it. I got my boobs early and curves and I hated it. Still learning to love it but the difference is I’m overweight
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl Mine came late and I was happy it was finally happening. To be honest I would rather not be overweight but it might be better than how I was when I was 13
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme SO YOU WANT ME TO STAY FAT FOR SOCIETY?!!!! Girls make a too much of a big deal in getting curves! CURVES ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl No I never said that and I don't think that. I just said that I didn't like being skinny. You like whatever you want to like its not my business.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme GOOD NOW GOOD DAY!
@LaylaTheTallGirl girl you need to chill.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@xXAlternativeblkchicxX NO TEEN BOYS WANT PLUMP AND CURVY GIRLS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF AND HAVE SEX TO MAKE GIRLFRIENDS OUT OF THEM!!!!!
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl Did a boy take advantage of you and talk you into sex when you weren't ready? Is that why you are so touchy? Because if that happened then I am so so sorry it happened to you nobody should be treated that way.
@LaylaTheTallGirl then dont date them just wait till your older and you dont have to do deal with boys. You'll find you a man thatll love your body either way. I gave up on teen dudes when I was 16 when I found out they were just raging hormones and childish.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme Well no but I’ve been told I would be a great sex banging machine. Boys need to fuck off!
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl OK that is very disrespectful talk but yell at them not at me, OK?
@LaylaTheTallGirl that's when you put your frustration out on them then block them. Putting your anger out on others wont help.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme Okay okay. Yell at @germanshepard! He’s a pig!
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@xXAlternativeblkchicxX Everyone is crazy about curves and big boobs. They aren’t that important!!!!!!!!!
@LaylaTheTallGirl chill with the exclamations. yeah sure they are, those are some boys preferences you cant change that. Look if you wanna talk about it more privately dm me but going after every. Single. Person that likes curves isnt gonna cut it. I'm 220 and 5'3 with mega curves you dont see me bashing anyone for liking skinny chicks.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@xXAlternativeblkchicxX OH SO YOU ARE ROASTING ME NOW? I never yelled at someone for liking skinny girls. I’m tired of guys using us as sex toys! 😭😡😡😡😡😭😭😭
teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl Nobody here used you like a sex toy. And you did yell at me. And I wish I understood why because I always like to help people but I don't see how I could help you.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme I HATE EVERYONE! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@LaylaTheTallGirl 🤦🏾‍♀️ girl who hurt you to twist people's words like this. I used myself as an example. And no I'm not roasting you I'm telling you the TRUTH since that's all you wanna hear, right?
I'm tired of dudes treating us that way too but girl we gotta put some walls up around ourselves to block them out. It not easy but it happens.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@xXAlternativeblkchicxX Yea be honest great but don’t be rude about it! God!!!
@LaylaTheTallGirl chill with the exclamations again please. And I was never rude about it. I think you just need to take a breather and reread messages and instead of twisting them thinking someone is being rude to you.
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