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HoneyB · 26-30, F
I used to insult someone back, although I now usually try to play stupid like I don't know what their talking about, or I take their insult as a compliment. sometimes when you even act nice back to the person, it drives them nuts. lol
Hiraeth · F
That's quite an amusing response. I like that. Treating them with kindness is always a great way to either enrage or confuse them, and it puts you in a good light at the same time. :)

3503501a · 46-50, M
Block and flag
Hiraeth · F
Quick and efficient. I like that.
Supervixen · 22-25, M
Depends. Usually online I just ignore insults and laugh it off, though if it's face-to-face, saying certain words can aggravate me.
Hiraeth · F
Face-to-face would certainly be aggravating. Thanks for taking the time to share. <3
Blessedsoul81 · 41-45, C
Yes, bless them :) that always releases your angst and pain towards them. I do the same :) Good souls of the same pure essence find eachother :)
revenant · F
Online does not bother me. I do not know them and they do not know me. In real life it much depends on the person and the context
if its a stranger in the street you should get right in their face so they instantly regret it and then they'll back off and probably not do it again. If you ignore that stuff it gives em confidence.
If its online then its pathetic anyway because the person has nothing better to do so just laugh at them.
Yeah i only say the former now because i used to be very passive and it got me mugged so with some people you've just gotta scare the crap out of them . Nobody expects it and they look silly/their friends all shit themselves. Just remember, knees and elbows hurt the most :)
(i'm actually not a violent person lol) no worries x
Hiraeth · F
@Outoforbits: I'm not entirely sure if I could scare people, considering that I'm petite and appear non-threatening! But I think that learning to be assertive would definitely help my situation - I've been improving in that area, but I still need to work on it.

(No, you don't seem like one to me haha)
Yeah and we all learn to be assertive at some point. You'll tend to find that as soon as you change your attitude towards yourself, everyone else follows.
SailorMarz · F
I'm just like "Ok" most of the time lol. Other times i feel enraged & cuss them out.
SailorMarz · F
@Hiraeth: I try not to cuss because it makes me look stupid, & like i have nothing better to say but its just soo damn satisfying to say "Stfu you stupid fucking idiotic bitch" omg its therapeutic. LOL much better than arguing on & on about it. Ill just shut you down with a "Fuck off" im a potty mouth when im pissed. Im really nice & patient tho soo..*blushes*
Hiraeth · F
@SailorMarzz: Are you one of those people that is very kind but is a force to reckon with when angered haha? To me, you sound like one, and those are one of my favorite types of people.

Yes, I save the cussing for when I absolutely can no longer take it. However, it's still very rare, and I'll keep it really short. But I can see why saying those things would be satisfying - I'm trying to hide a smile at the thought of writing out something like that. I could never do something like that.
SailorMarz · F
@Hiraeth: Hahahahaha LOL well idk i wouldn't say that. It's rare for me to get that extremely pissed at someone tbh. But when it happens i just get nasty & then i get really embarrased afterwards. I don't like showing intense feelings like that it makes me feel naked xD & you could never write something like that? Oh pfftt sure ya can just let your emotions take over ;)
Jungleman · M
consider the source, then if i feel bothered, insult them back or if not just ignore it, delete the comment and move on.
Myzery · 41-45, F
Online doesn't bother me.
I rarely get those.
Face to face, I get those a lot. I pretend that they don't bother me, but cry for being sich a worthless sack of shit when I am alone.
Hiraeth · F
Oh no . . . *hugs tightly*
SW-User
Dont respond, makes them feel like crap.
Hiraeth · F
That's always a good method. Plus, it sometimes shelters you from further insults.
SW-User
Insert smart ass comment.
Hiraeth · F
I sometimes wish I could be a smart ass. 😝
Zonuss · 46-50, M
I ignore them. Because they are insulting themselves.

 
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