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How do you feel when someone deletes your reply to their question?

I answered a question in a polite and factual manner. I then complimented and thanked them for their sentiments although I had disagreed with how they'd worded the first part. It was, in my opinion, impossible to do. They promptly deleted.
I then noticed they'd deleted another's reply. *sigh
I find that a little annoying and quite childish actually.

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Peaches · F

I just don't comment on any more of their posts. 😔But if I have a serious comment and get goofy or mean spirited replies, I'll delete them too.

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Zoranna · F

@Peaches No they don't care, "keyboard warriors" but nasty cowards in reality probably.

Peaches · F

@Zoranna YES, they take their problems out on others while they hide. 👎🏼 I wish they all could be exposed for who they really are here one day! 😜

Zoranna · F

@Peaches Karma, Peaches, Karma and patience. 😉

Miram · 31-35, F

When they are being disrespectful, I delete it. I can't invest in everyone.

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Miram · 31-35, F

@Zoranna There are people here who have such fixed toxic patterns of behaviors that almost everyone knows them.

It has little to do with others.

Miram · 31-35, F

@SatanBurger Yeah, that is basically it. Life is too short and we all have to prioritize.

Zoranna · F

@Miram Yes, I'm aware of that. I'd never come across this person before. Oh well.

questionWeaver

I delete 15-20 comments every day

I do no recall the last comment I wrote that was deleted

But, I do reserve most of what I write to posts by friends and my posts

Do I feel bad about deleting comments?

▪︎ Not at all

Do I delete comments because I disagree?

▪︎ Never

I delete comments because people use posts to express insults and thoughts that are out-of-scope ... that they could not get people to read otherwise.

latinbutterfly · F

Well it's really their post and they can do what they want, whether we like it or not. I just quietly move on so I don't get blocked.

Zoranna · F

@latinbutterfly I realise it was their post and they can do what they like. This is my post to say how annoying and childish I found it. I wasn't in the least bit rude nor disrespectful and I haven't named them.

latinbutterfly · F

@Zoranna Don't let it get to you 🙂.

Zoranna · F

@latinbutterfly It hasn't, thank you. 🙂 Instead of stewing about it I wrote about it ... here. lol

WatercolourWildFlowers · 51-55, F

It says more about the person than you, if you were not being rude. Some people don't know that we can have conversations about stuff and still disagree with each other.

Zoranna · F

@WatercolourWildFlowers Exactly. Thank you.

JoePourMan · 61-69, M

I find it silly and annoying. Some do not want any little bit of different opinions I guess

Zoranna · F

@JoePourMan It is rather.

TexChik · F

I will mute or block people that do that

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TexChik · F

@JoePourMan I insider it “tweaking” my feed so that I can avoid that. And conversely , when someone is being nasty on one of my posts , I tell them I am deleting their hate speech . 😉

JoePourMan · 61-69, M

@TexChik that's mighty polite of you

TexChik · F

@JoePourMan well it was meant as a slap in their mouth! 😁

Peppa · 31-35, F

Sometimes a bit peeved but I've done it so many times to others. So can't really go and get upset can I? lol....

Zoranna · F

@Peppa Not really I guess. lol

SW-User

This happened to me here. I stopped answering their questions for good.

Zoranna · F

@SW-User That's what I intend to do.

rjc36 · 61-69, M

I don't know if I ever remember seeing that someone had deleted my response but have seen entire posts get deleted after I replied and my comment was hearted or even replied to.

I try not to worry about it but I can also see where it can hurt your feelings if they deleted just your reply.

Zoranna · F

@rjc36 It's quite common for entire posts to be deleted. My feelings weren't hurt at all, I just found it annoying and childish. My reply wasn't the only one deleted.

rjc36 · 61-69, M

Well some people have a tendency to only allow the replies that fit their vision to stay and I agree that can be childish @Zoranna

walabby · M

That reflects on them and not you, of course.. :)

Zoranna · F

@walabby Thank you. ☺️

Zaxel · 26-30, M

dont waste effort on people who dont want to hear it. it is childish but theyre free to live a childish life. not everyone will listen to reason

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Zoranna · F

@Zaxel I know and understand that but I'm not naming them, sorry.

Zaxel · 26-30, M

@Zoranna what if you'd be saving me from wasting my own time? lol

Zoranna · F

@Zaxel Nope, sorry. 😆

hunkalove · 61-69, M

I ignore them after that.

Zoranna · F

@hunkalove I shall be.

SW-User

It doesn't bother me because it usually only happens when I'm replying to a pedo scumbag or some other piece of trash.. but then most of the comments of others are usually being deleted too, so i don't feel completely rejected! 😂

Zoranna · F

@SW-User I wouldn't be replying to those sorts at all! I'm so pleased you didn't feel rejected though. 🤭

SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP

If I'm polite and they delete assuming I haven't been mean, I just think it's projection. It's more likely they just didn't want to hear an opposing opinion or something you said really got to them, even though it was just criticism.

Zoranna · F

@SatanBurger Well they didn't give a reason, they just deleted. lol I was polite though. Oh well.

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

Amused.

InOtterWords · F

That they cannot handle the truth.

Zoranna · F

@InOtterWords Nope, apparently not. *sigh They could have just disagreed but ... oh well.

ExtremeNext · 31-35

I block the person, if they don't want a reply then don't ask a question

Zoranna · F

@ExtremeNext A reply they don't like. lol I won't waste a block on them, I simply ignore them as I will this one.

SubstantialKick · 36-40, M

If it's a troll, I might post the comment again just to get underneath their skin 😆.

Zoranna · F

@SubstantialKick They weren't a troll but I like your approach. 🤭

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Zoranna · F

@FannyApplesauce Not many did. Haha It happened very quickly. lol

Pretzel · 61-69, M

almost amused at their "sensitivity"

Zoranna · F

@Pretzel Yep, "almost". lol

SW-User

I am honestly not bothered

Zoranna · F

@SW-User That's fair enough.

TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M

Many more questions to come and answered by you

Quizzical · 46-50, M

I just block the fuckers

Zoranna · F

@Quizzical I wouldn't waste a "block" on them, I'll just ignore them in future.

Montanaman · M

Wtf moment 🤷🤦

Zoranna · F

@Montanaman Yep. *sigh

MethDozer · M

I don't care anymore.

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Miram · 31-35, F

@MethDozer Yeah, I noticed you're centrist and lot of people feel offended when you respond.

Zoranna · F

@Miram I know you are. 😆

MethDozer · M

@Miram It's the new religion.

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Zoranna · F

@ChemDawg I wasn't that bothered, more surprised than anything at first actually.

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Zoranna · F

@sspec Ha! No, this one would just delete. I'm not going to bother with them all.

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Zoranna · F

@sspec I shall, thank you.

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