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Am i weird for being creeped out by a strango on this site?

this is what this guy David wrote to me.
[u]chumgum1961 · 41-45, M
You never even offered your name,said nice to meet you. Why would I answer your question? You expect courtesy when you gave none? You are not a nice person and no one I'm interested in bothering with.
[/u]He wrote to me for the first time today. i get off and on while doing stuff. he wouldn't answer my questions and then wrote this. is it me? Is this just a troll? i can never tell if someone is a troll or just weird.
Jasondf · M Best Comment
Everyone here is a little off. You’re instincts are correct

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LadyJ · F
Yes he blocked me too a few months ago because i didn't reply fast enough 😂
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
Haha. I spent some time chatting with him and he requires instant replies or he gets offended and says ‘goodbye.’ He started talking to me yesterday after two years of silence and when I didn’t respond right away, he told me to drop dead, then blocked me. 😂😂😂 At least he’s finally given up.
@WanderingThrough thank you. i was given some crap for outting him. but those types need to be outted so they stop doing it
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
@bunny61 Absolutely, though I do understand you need to be careful when posting because mentioning another user can get your account banned for a bit. Hopefully someone benefited from your warning. ❤️
rjc36 · 56-60, M
I would not worry about it to much. Sometimes people just act strangely. And if things are not going their way they get upset and take it out on whoever. Maybe they are just not the correct person for you or he is having a bad day.

I hope things go better for you soon.
JohnOlinger · 41-45, M
He Trolls Alot Of Women
MARTAisback · 22-25, F
@MARTAisback i know
LadyJ · F
Something not right about him..he messaged me also then got mad when I didn't reply
LadyJ · F
@bunny61 i wouldnt worry too much there's alot of strange people on this site just press the block button if someone creeps you out too much
@LadyJ thanks. i will.
JohnOlinger · 41-45, M
@LadyJ He Trolls alot of Women He's A Creep
Travelbug · 51-55, F
Chumgum has been around years and if you won't talk he usually tells you to drop dead. He's an oddity
@Travelbug thank you
Don't use names when posting about others. At least not when posting negatively. It's against TOS (the rules of this site) and many people look at it the same way kids look at 'tattling." Childish.

If somebody creeps you out, either just block them so they can't do it twice or if their behavior is abusive and scary, report them.
@bunny61 I was referring to far less damaging 'bad.' Like who put the tack on the teacher's chair.

What @bijouxbroussard said.
@Mamapolo2016 what kind o child puts a tack on a teacher's chair?
@bunny61 I have no interest in discussing this further. I merely wanted you to know that 'outing' other users can result in being suspended. That's all. You use that information as you choose. Good luck in the coming days.
Why do you care? It's not a big deal, it's not like they walked into your house. Just dont answer and dont name names publicly, its immature
@bunny61 it's not like he threatened to rape and kill you and your family. Weird stuff happens online, that's not that weird.
Also ignoring messages...I dont understand why some people have such a problem with that? It's the internet
@MushroomFaerie i have had stranger things happen. and sometimes the person telling you off on the internet is someone you know
@bunny61 that's a terrifying thought that will give me nightmares.
Luckily I think you safe on this one, they have a rep
The reason people are suggesting you not post usernames is because it’s against the site’s terms of service and you could end up getting suspended. The mods have asked that members report problems to them, block the offender, etc.
strictly speaking, you're not supposed to post people's ids/names/et al. it'd likely be a good plan to edit that out. hard to say, having only heard one side of things. with the numbers, frequency, and severity of misunderstandings, it's a wonder that anyone ever understands anyone else. maybe they never actually do and it's all just imagined.
@blackguard i think if someone is aggressive and easily irritated that we should all know. i would like to be warned. i didn't want to go to the SW police about it. i just wanted to know if this was typical of him.
@bunny61 fair enough, but I believe that doesn't line up with the TOS.
Astro · 56-60, M
Just type his username in on here. Theres lots of people who had fun run ins with him.
english · 56-60, M
he is someone not worth your time either way , his lack of respect alone ..😕
Poppies · 61-69, F
He definitely sounds like he deserves one of your 500 blocks.
nedkelly · M
Tell him the Aussie way - Fuck off ya stupid troll
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Name rings a bell....
@Adaydreambeliever i think he is new but maybe he is new to me

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