Im just gonna vent a little here cause i just feel like i want to

So my family is recommending me to work where my aunt works and she'll pick me up and everything...but my gripe with that is I kinda obviously want to be able to just go to work on my own and do my own stuff and I don't want to rely on my aunt to drive me to work everyday...and it's not only that to be honest, the truth is I think my aunt's kind of uhggto be around, I mean she's family and I don't hate her, she's just kinda loud a lot at times, she's a bit to intrusive as well with questions about stuff, and she just is non-chalantly uncaring sometimes (She'll sometimes make plans with my mom on doing something or going somewhere with us a lot of times and ends up never following through...) idk...it's a little of a mix both just wanting to rely on myself and do my own stuff, and not really liking being around my aunt...