@Daisy57 hey that's great news

@dumpstermeow got her what she asked for.Think she's overwhelmed getting older and doesn't want to celebrate.Im not going to force things or get cake when she seems irked by it atm.

@SagePoet ok

@Stark Yes her problem too.Shes behind in school.Its taken her longer.She has a learning disability.She has trouble making friends.She is kinda hard on herself.

@Daisy57 I can relate to that so much

@Stark thank you for your input

@Bushmanoz She expressed she doesn't like getting older.I think cause she's behind in things.No pressure my end but she has internal pressure.

@Daisy57 yeah, my sons the same. I just ask him whats he going to remember in a few years..another day doing work, or a special day out with his mates. It really sounds to me shes just really overwhelmed with even having to decide, like it;s just one more thing she doesnt want to have to deal with. Id say dont ask, just organise something, remember its about you too, you had her all those years ago and its just as important for you..maybe tell her that as you drag her out for a no pressure relaxing night

@Bushmanoz ok will try.

@Stereoguy ok thanks.I did get her gifts.This came about when I asked her where she'd like to go.We will see.I suggested a French restaurant,her favorite.She said she really doesn't want to celebrate.

@Stereoguy ok