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Should I drink?

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Yes

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I haven't drank for about 5 weeks now. I don't have any alcohol right now, but I want to get some and maybe drink one day. Just one day won't hurt. Just to remember whatvs it like.
Actually I do have a small airplane vodka bottle (I found it today while I was cleaning), but I won't deink it, I don't really like vodka. I could get beer tomorrow.

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LadyGrace ·

The issue is, do you think more of yourself or others? Since when do we have to oblige or please others? It is not their job to decide your worth. The number one rule that keeps a person straight in life, and priorities straight, is to remember this one thing. [b]Always[/b] tell yourself the truth. The truth always sets you free, then you won't have to lie about yourself. You can accept yourself for who you truly are. When we lie about what, or who we are, that is what brings on low self-esteem, low self-confidence, and that turns into hating ourselves because we weren't being true to our own feelings, nor did we stand up for what and who we know we are. Those that who cannot accept us as we are, are the ones that are not our true friends. With true friends, you can be who you truly are, and they won't leave. If they do, who needs them?!! We weren't created to be people-pleasers. I'm so proud of you for bringing the subject up, as I know it was so hard for you, but just think of how many other people you may help because you were so brave and forthcoming. God bless you for that and I know that you can do this, Dan.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@LadyGrace Thank you and thank this whole place. Can't believe that while this place helped me so much and has played such big importance in my life, it's free and easily accessable.

LadyGrace ·

@Dan193 ❤️🤗

LadyGrace ·

I understand, but you're most likely drinking to numb what is bothering you, if you're truthful with yourself. As you said in one of your posts that you smile a lot more and are happier, is the impression that you gave, when you are drinking. That kind of tells me that something in your life needs to change, so that you can be happy without damaging your health with the alcohol. That's the same thing I used to do with food. I used food as my comfort. When I addressed the problem, that went away. It wasn't what I was eating, but what was eating at me, that needed to change.

LadyGrace ·

I'll take on the challenge with you, if you like. Control your alcohol temptation for six more months, and I'll match you with my eating habits...no cheating!! 😂 Then come April (it will be here before you know it) we'll meet back up and see how our lives have changed. What do you say, buddy? I think we will be very happy we did.

LadyGrace ·

You're not being honest with yourself, if you think one drink won't hurt. That's the beginning of a bad choice. I'm hoping you love yourself enough not to harm your life with alcohol that could turn into dependency. Yes, you could do anything, but is it the right and best choice for you, is the question. I'm proud of you for not drinking for five whole weeks. I bet you have many talents that you could reintroduce into your life that you enjoy, and would be so much more fulfilling and productive. You may have talent you've not used in years. Perhaps you can paint or remodel things.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@LadyGrace I felt like alcohol made me better, but while that was happening, I became dependent of it. Like my bright mood and assertivness got linked to it.
That's the reason I stopped, and try to stay away, because I want to learn to do and be those things without it in my blood.
Thank you for your answer, me writing this to you, makes me remember why I stopped in the first place.

LadyGrace ·

@Dan193 You're welcome, Dan. I know you can do this. I have learned that temptations can lead to a sense of false security. Satan makes them look so good, but numbs our mind to the outcome and dangers of it. I have learned that sometimes we are not as strong as we would like to think. That right there, is a lie from the devil, and soon we're hooked for believing that lie. The main thing is to love ourselves enough to do what is best for ourselves.

curiosi · 61-69, F

As long as you come on tonight and keep us entertained, then it's fine.

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Dan193 · 31-35, M

@LadyGrace Maybe, but I'm not like that. I'm more humble.

LadyGrace ·

@Dan193 Why do you need an excuse... to fit in? No explanation needed. That's like apologizing for who you are or want to be. If the truth be known, I bet they would look up to you for it, and I bet you that perhaps privately, a few of them wish they could do the same. But they are more concerned about appearances than taking care of their body. By your good example, maybe they will see that it's okay to be who they want to be and that people will still accept them. That's the way it's supposed to be anyway. Just say "No man, I'm getting in shape for this summer. And I bet y'all won't be able to keep up with me.", then laugh.

LyricalBlues · 36-40, F

@Dan193

Some reasons I often find people don't question is saying you're on antibiotics (e.g. for an ear infection maybe if you're looking for an actual non-embarrassing fake reason for why you'd be on antibiotics) or that you've just taken a strong painkiller for a bad ache (e.g head, back, knee).. being the designated driver can also work sometimes, but then for longer events some people may still try to push for "just one drink"... but few people ever question the wisdom of abstaining when you've just told them you've taken other medications that aren't meant to be taken with alcohol :)

I hope eventually you'll feel comfortable simply saying "no thank you" and that those around you will accept "no thanks" as a complete answer without questioning your motives.. but in the meantime, I hope you'll find ways to say no, even if you aren't ready to share your whole truth just yet..

Tracos · 51-55, M

Don't ...... Why give in....

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Dan193 · 31-35, M

@Tracos Yeah, I've been doing that, want to start again from tomorrow. But no worries, I probably won't drink. At least not until next Friday. I have some important things to deal with first, and I can't risk getting really drunk, because I haven't drank in a while, and Idk what the strength of the effects of the alcohol on my mind will be.

Tracos · 51-55, M

@Dan193 hang in therehere man!

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@Tracos Thanks.

SW-User

I have quit ok i drink once or twice a year

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User When u quit, how long did u last until u had that drink?

SW-User

@Dan193 haha i was never an alcoholic I used to drink a lot coz i had that sorta company back in 2009 to 2013 post that it dropped down significantly and now its to this. It was a gradual process I would say also from Whiskey/Scotch and Red Rum to Red wine only.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User I understand.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

Damn 4 to 1 on No 😖 I see how it is

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