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Do you hate it when people are being rude to you for no reason? Is there a way to deal with it?

I don't know if I'm being too sensitive. I know they are probably frustrated due to whatever is happening in their lives or they have some problems they can't deal with...but do they really have to be rude towards strangers? Why should someone else have to tolerate that? I'm just minding my business but it feels like whenever I make the slightest mistake in life (holding the line for 15 seconds longer or asking questions that aren't stated in the site etc.) I almost always run into a clearly-angry-person that has to roll their eyes, curse, yell, be passive-aggressive, be active aggressive...
And whenever I'm upset, my stomach hurts 馃槄 so not only do I have to be around such people, they literally hurt me. Is there a way to deal with them? I don't want to be rude to them, put them down or whatever, I just wish they weren't rude to me and would mind their own business/do their job.
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SW-User
As you age,you drag more and more of the weight caused by negative experience with you. You simply can鈥檛 look at the world the same way anymore if it gets a bit too much to handle. That鈥檚 how life is
Melpomene22-25, F
@SW-User I may not be that old but I did have a ton of problems already. Even now, I have a lot of problems. Should I make others miserable just because I feel that way or should I try to solve what can be solved and not worry about things I cannot change?
SW-User
@Melpomene if your negative life experiences don鈥檛 make you reflect negatively on others, and it didn鈥檛 affect your presence as others can view it,you pretty much mastered that bitch called life.
Melpomene22-25, F
@SW-User I'm still far away from mastering it but I don't want to hurt someone just because I have problems, especially not someone who's got nothing to do with it.
SW-User
@Melpomene at some point,most people start to generalize.