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Do you hate it when people are being rude to you for no reason? Is there a way to deal with it?

I don't know if I'm being too sensitive. I know they are probably frustrated due to whatever is happening in their lives or they have some problems they can't deal with...but do they really have to be rude towards strangers? Why should someone else have to tolerate that? I'm just minding my business but it feels like whenever I make the slightest mistake in life (holding the line for 15 seconds longer or asking questions that aren't stated in the site etc.) I almost always run into a clearly-angry-person that has to roll their eyes, curse, yell, be passive-aggressive, be active aggressive...
And whenever I'm upset, my stomach hurts 😅 so not only do I have to be around such people, they literally hurt me. Is there a way to deal with them? I don't want to be rude to them, put them down or whatever, I just wish they weren't rude to me and would mind their own business/do their job.
SW-User
As you age,you drag more and more of the weight caused by negative experience with you. You simply can’t look at the world the same way anymore if it gets a bit too much to handle. That’s how life is
SW-User
@Melpomene if your negative life experiences don’t make you reflect negatively on others, and it didn’t affect your presence as others can view it,you pretty much mastered that bitch called life.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@SW-User I'm still far away from mastering it but I don't want to hurt someone just because I have problems, especially not someone who's got nothing to do with it.
SW-User
@Melpomene at some point,most people start to generalize.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
We all have stuff happening in our lives; going through something doesn't give people carte blanche to be *ssholes though.
Try your best to ignore it, there's nothing an *sshole hates more than missing their target.

🤗
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@LucyFuhr I think they don't even have a target, just a weird way of stressing over problems even more and making other people nervous.
fvckit · 41-45, M
You'll go a long way, letting It Go and letting them run their mouths. They sound just as stupid to everyone around you as they do to you. It's okay to poke fun at them for it every now and again though
[c=#009E4F]yes i hate it. I usually just get rude back, it's not the best solution but that's what i did[/c]
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@YukikoAmagi What kind of reaction do you get then? Do they stop?
@Melpomene [c=#359E00]ended up fighting until one of us blocking[/c]
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
I just say think "fuck it, ain't my fault they've got ants in their pants so I ain't dealing with no shiiiiiiiiet!!" ............. Or something. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ
Online sites let people behave like they couldn’t in real life. Don’t let them bully you.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@wilderflower This happens more irl actually.
@Melpomene I’ll say this-nobody bullies a bitch. Think about it.
yotebtrius · 22-25, M
Yeah happens to me all the time. I let it go until I get tired of it.
I'll tell them to go fuck themselves -
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@SkeetSkeet I tried to do that but it looks weird because with more pain my smile gets bigger 😂

 
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