Are people of different races not honest with each other?

For example, everytime I ask a non-white friend if something bothered them in media or whatever, like whether the movie pocahontas was offensive, they are always like "nah, idgaf" but every time I watch a YouTube video like "modern native american on pochontas" they are always like "this movie is an insult to my ppl" and stuff like that.

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