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Does it bother you when ppl talk badly about you?

I think ppl at my work sometimes speak badly about me at work even if I am nice. I am big on character but this has been bothering me. Like I am nice and polite and dont gossip so what else can I do?
TheFragile · 46-50, M
I say fuck them, myself, but I guess it does bother me. I don't fit in at my job.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
You can't please everyone. I used to work at a place where people would sweet talk to my face but complain about me behind my back.

There's nothing that can be done but just carry on with your work and ignore people.
SW-User
It bothers me but there isn't much you can do about it. You can't control other people or their actions all you can do is control your reactions
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
It used to. Until I got older and learned to not care what other people think of me. If someone doesn't like me, fuck off. Ya know? I know that someone who I literally met only once and hung out with once absolutely despised me for pretty much no reason except for how I look. She said to everyone else that "I look rapey." and that she hates me.
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
Not really you either like me or you don't.
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
Not in the least.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
If I'm losing business because of office politics , then I'm concerned. Otherwise it's a waste of my time
SailorMarz · F
Of course...it's always from people that don't see their own flaws
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
@SailorMarz
Exactly, when someone points a finger at you there is always three pointing back at them
BebeIsHere · F
Just focus on your job and ignore them.
SW-User
Actually. It amuses me. Lol.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
No. People who do this are losers. 🙂

 
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