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@nedkelly This has to be of another lifetime, but it happens this way.. Said partner is not fulfilling you, you are feeling a void, someone offers you to fill that void, husband or wife is neglectful of you and you meet someone who offers you what you didn't know you were looking for. I'm only giving you the possible justifiable affair
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@CharlieZ That pretends all relationships are marriage. I am detailing something in vague emotional words, and would be a fair justification for divorce. Hence I've never been married as it comes with elements people need to learn together that other's call cheating. And curiously I'm not the one who had an affair.
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
@SW-User I pretend nothing. Choosed my words according to yours (...husband or wife…)
Replace married by in a agreeded exclusive relationship, replace divorce by walking away not coming back and I still stand for my choice. An only personal but not negotiable one.
I do not care a lot (to each one their own life) about what "other's call cheating" provided I share the same definitions with my SO.
If we don´t share it, there should not be a relationship.
If we seem to agree on this but one of us denny it in facts, no matter the words, the relationship should be over since that very moment.
Again, this is my take, mine only, not necessarily valid for others, never subordinated to other´s opinions.
I´m glad for your own dignity (that is not a state of mind but about what we do outside it) that you was not the one who cheated.
I neither did it in my life.
Replace married by in a agreeded exclusive relationship, replace divorce by walking away not coming back and I still stand for my choice. An only personal but not negotiable one.
I do not care a lot (to each one their own life) about what "other's call cheating" provided I share the same definitions with my SO.
If we don´t share it, there should not be a relationship.
If we seem to agree on this but one of us denny it in facts, no matter the words, the relationship should be over since that very moment.
Again, this is my take, mine only, not necessarily valid for others, never subordinated to other´s opinions.
I´m glad for your own dignity (that is not a state of mind but about what we do outside it) that you was not the one who cheated.
I neither did it in my life.