Do you pm here first, or wait for others?

I rather have people PM me, else I think I'm bugging them

I do not personal message anyone - personal opinion

I pm first...
Also it depends who it is..
I don't pm random people!

Extremely rare - as with answering them.

Depends on if I'm interested in a certain member. It gets disappointing though when you find out that they're not even interested in having a conversation with you. I got dissapointed in a few people lately and they end up on my mute list. I don't block anyone unless they act disrespectful.

Why wait if you want to talk. But sometimes you message a lot that you think you bother so you stop messaging...and wait to get a message to see if they care talking with you.

I never message first. I've found messages to be overall more annoying than useful, and would rather discuss things in the open where others can see and join in.

I have never ever started a private chat on here. I chat with many people but they have always contacted me first.

I've only PM'd first to tell someone thank you for something. I'm too shy to PM just for a chat.

i like to msg first i am quite friendly and i almost never get msged first ever.

I don’t pm a lot of people but the ones who stay are usually ones I pm first

I generally don't pm anyone here. But I do answer if anyone sends any message

I’ve never messaged anyone first. I don’t see the point tbh

Usually first.. Almost never get pm'ed. Its fine through

I wait for others normally. A lot of people don't seem to like PMs.

I usually always pm first and wait for responses.

Hardly ever had someone PM me first

I pm first. But never random people.

I just reply (sometimes) to PMs

Usually wait but not always

I message first

I no longer PM first.

depends on the subject

About 50/50

Wait

Both

I've been PM'ng first these days. I like receiving them though.