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Why dont people trust people that are TOO nice?

I'm a very very nice person but for some people, some people are creeped out by me. My friends said I'm too nice and I need to stop and be more assertive and fiesty is more fun. I tried to be nice and when people don't give in, I get angry. Is that why I don't have a lot of friends? Be honest

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

I trust nice people.

But I don't understand what you mean by people not giving in.

LaurieKitKat94 · 31-35, F

@DrWatson Like I expect them to do something nice back and they don't do it. I get angry.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@LaurieKitKat94 I see. I think you are describing two separate aspects of your personality.

One is being nice. I admire that and disagree that feisty is more fun.

The other is getting angry at others when they do not respond in the way you expect them to. If these people are your friends, I would hope that they would be nice to you in response.